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Friday, July 22, 2005

Namaskar at the drop of a hat

Most Indians are religious people. They drop a Namaskar every now and then. If not in a temple, then there is a different form of Namaskar. Instead of joining hands, when they see a temple from a distance or something remotely like that, they touch their forehead with their hand, mostly their right hand and then kiss it. It is this form of Namaskar that I will be talking about in this post. I remember, every time a BEST bus passed Maruti temple near KabutarKhanna, almost everyone would peep outside their windows and drop a Namaskar to either the Maruti temple or the mosque that stood opposite to it. If they see a funeral procession, guess what they do? Right, drop a Namaskar. I have seen people who drop a Namaskar whenever they get in a local train in Bombay. Now things are not as bad as they are in London and what prompts people to do that is not known to me. If you just step on someone, a simple sorry is not enough. It has to be accompanied by a Namaskar. Now, not everyone is aware of this. Take this story that I heard from a reliable source. In some software company, a software engineer was explaining complexities in the system to his American client, who was wearing a short skirt. They were sitting on a table in the conference room when this guy happened to step on her toes. And how could he not drop a Namaskar. He touched her lap and then proceeded to touch his hand on the forehead and then kissed it. The American lady was stunned and it took quite a effort to explain that this was out of respect and not a lustful act. And this is my personal favourite. While traveling in a BEST bus, a guy dropped his mobile phone. The guy promptly picked it, dusted it, checked whether it was okay and then Namaskared the phone!

16 Comments:

Blogger Neel Arurkar said...

Hmmm. But extending it to mobile phones and touching the lap incident..dont you think it is too much?

Jul 22, 2005, 10:51:00 PM  
Blogger Neel Arurkar said...

Gangadhar, just today I saw a dead dog on Hosur Road and a guy dropped a namaskar :-)
People, you may visit Irina's blog to read about devastating floods in Romania.

Jul 24, 2005, 5:19:00 AM  
Blogger nothing said...

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Jul 24, 2005, 8:34:00 AM  
Blogger Neel Arurkar said...

Irina!. You were the first one to let me know about the quake. I did not see TV yesterday night and now when I saw your comment, I went to a news site. I am fine. And what the news sites say at the moment is that everything is fine. The Andamans where the epicenter was located are a group of islands situated away from mainland India and are a bit underdeveloped. So news gathering becomes a problem.
Thanks for the concern.

Jul 24, 2005, 8:55:00 PM  
Blogger Lavinia said...

That's such an interesting post. Its amazing how even your own culture can sometimes make you step back and ask yourself: "what's going here?"

I think I'll post a few South African idiosyncracies back at my blog too^_^

Thank you so much for visiting. I will definately be back here.

Cheers!

Jul 25, 2005, 6:51:00 AM  
Blogger Neel Arurkar said...

Lavinia, your blog was a great find. Its interesting to read a journalist's blog.And thanks for the compliments.

Karen, Thanks for the compliments. By the way, I am a regular at your blog.

Jul 25, 2005, 9:39:00 AM  
Blogger The Lil fairy & her angel friends said...

hahah!!! tats cute i thought namskar or namstay was just the hello!:)
poor foreign lady:)

Jul 25, 2005, 10:45:00 AM  
Blogger roya parsay said...

hahaha, very interesting. Some cutoms are to be explained. I am now away from my computer and cant add you as favorites,could you leave a mesage on my blog so I can bookmark you later?Thanks; www.royaparsay.blogspot.com
I got yours thru lavini's blog. Take care; roya

Jul 25, 2005, 11:01:00 AM  
Blogger Hul said...

HA haha - yes thats some thing every one does and its very addictive.

i even saw a few collegues of mine do a namaskar to their comp before they start work for the day..!

This goes for books, pens, people and a lot more..! and its increasing

Jul 25, 2005, 2:22:00 PM  
Blogger Neel Arurkar said...

Unaiza : :-)
Roya : Bookmarked you as well
Hul : Yet to meet someone who namaskars a computer!

Jul 26, 2005, 7:58:00 AM  
Blogger Kroopa Shah (Kr00pz) said...

Yeah, I noticed that when I was in Chennai. I even picked up the habit. After a few months, whenever I saw a religious spot I would do the Namaskar. Even if I dropped anything then I would do the Namaskar. And now I've lost the habit unless I am with family.

Jul 26, 2005, 9:07:00 AM  
Blogger roya parsay said...

thanks for the words of encouragement. I may have to post some customs and misunderstandings too. Keep up the good work , regards Roya

Jul 26, 2005, 10:40:00 AM  
Blogger Seema said...

"Yet to meet someone who namaskars a computer!", u've seen. well not exactly the comp but remember the ganesh idol.
well... even i'm one of the ppl who does namaskar, but u might not know of it coz my hands jus move (slightly) in the air not touching anyone, not even myself.

Jul 27, 2005, 5:55:00 AM  
Blogger Neel Arurkar said...

Roya :k. will visit your blog
FMOE : Hmmm.

Jul 27, 2005, 8:03:00 AM  
Blogger Dewdrop said...

Hi there, I stepped here, via Unaiza's blog. That lap kissing and namaskar-ing the phone was hilarious. I also see Bollywood folks namaskaring the steps of the stage while either performing or approaching to receive awards, I think thats become customary too.

This post also reminds me of my childhood habit of kissing my text books if I stepped or dropped it as a sign of respectiung knowledge, nothing religious tho.

Jul 27, 2005, 9:56:00 AM  
Blogger Art said...

Well!!! it happens... we will be surprised on our own culture!!!

Jul 28, 2005, 9:24:00 PM  

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